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Former Chairman of the defunct Skye Bank, Tunde Ayeni, has asked a Federal Capital Territory Customary Court in Dawaki, Abuja to declare that his ex-mistress Adaobi Alagwu’s daughter is not his.
Ayeni and Alagwu have been locked in a paternity dispute since 2022.
While she insists that her daughter belongs to the business mogul, Ayeni has repeatedly denied fathering the child.
Ayeni while being led in evidence on Monday by his lawyer, Silas Onu, said Alagwu was never his wife and urged the court for pronouncement declaring the same.
He said, “I want a declaration that she was never my wife; we were never married, and I am not the biological father of her daughter.”
Ayeni, recounting details of his relationship with Alagwu, said he had made commitments before the child was born and immediately after by paying money to Alagwu’s father in the form of a dowry and agreeing to have the daughter bear his surname, but the money was returned to him, stressing that he was never married to her.
Ayeni added that he came to court because he brought a petition against Alagwu, who had been parading herself as his wife and claiming that she had a child for him, which he said was not true.
He told the court that he and Alagwu had been friends prior to 2022 and all along, she knew that he was married.
He said, “I never hid that fact from her. In the course of our friendship, it was to my knowledge that she was also in a relationship with other men, which fact was also not hidden.
“Sometime in 2022, she claimed she got pregnant and that the pregnancy was for me. It became a source of dispute between me and her until she brought in her mother, who came to talk to me and subsequently, her father, whom I met for the first time at that time.
“Her father claimed to be a chief in his community and that the daughter had told him about me a year earlier. And that she has told him that she is pregnant and that the pregnancy was for me.
“The father said according to Igbo tradition, there must be money paid to her for the child not to bear his (Ms. Alagwu’s father’s) name. And, that as a traditional chief, it was important for me to do it to avoid the shame to him and his family and for me to avoid the traditional consequence.”
Ayeni added that he only agreed to pay the said money at the time so that the child could answer his name because he was led to believe that the child was his.
“I agreed, but it was not for marriage, because I explained that I am married under the Act and I cannot conduct any other legal union.”
A copy of Ayeni’s marriage certificate was tendered to the court as evidence.
Speaking further, the business mogul said, “I was made to believe that the child was mine, which informed why I took those steps in the interest of the child.”
He added that he made the payment when the respondent was about five to six months pregnant.
“I took those responsible steps when I thought the child was mine. When I discovered that the girl child was not my child, I did not hesitate to convey the fact that she did not belong to me.”
Ayeni stated that the respondent’s act of parading herself as his wife brought embarrassment to his wife, which led him to issue her a cease and desist notice.
“When reasonable discussion could not stop her from parading herself in a manner to cause my wife disaffection and embarrassment I had to resort to the legal measure.
“I instructed a lawyer, Dele Adesina (SAN), to write the respondent a cease and desist, because she was parading herself as Mrs. Ayeni, claiming to have a child for me. Punch
